Elegance

I went to the library last week looking for George R. R. Martin's "Game of Thrones". Unfortunately, they only had 5 copies with 25 holds on it. Not interested in waiting so long I went searching for something else to read. I picked up this book because I found the cover fascinating. Elegance is a trait I frequently strive for but rarely feel that I have achieved. As a stay at home mom, my wardrobe has slowly disintegrated to jeans, T-shirts and tennis shoes. I try to blow dry my hair everyday but forget make-up. I pulled this book by Kathleen Tessaro down and skimmed the back cover. The story of Louise Canova rang a bell, so I took this book home and devoured it in 2 or 3 days. I enjoyed the transformation of this character from sad, lonely housewife enduring unhappy relationships so that she can feel secure to stupid, shallow divorce and finally to empowered, balanced woman. It was a delightful ride. This book was published in 2003. Current sensibilities may be distressed by the lead character's cavalier attitude toward excessive spending that is clearly beyond her means. The lessons, though, still ring true. I  found the chapter titled "Negliges" particularly apropos. The lead character's muse, Madam Dariaux, reminds us of the importance of dressing for the bedroom. Although I have several negliges, they are not suitable for actual sleeping and only come out for special occasions. Most nights I pull on my husbands flannel pants and an over-sized T-shirt...very attractive. This book has motivated me to find some options that fulfill both roles, comfy and flattering.  I am looking forward to picking up more of Ms. Tessaro's books. I would recommend this one to anyone who would like to feel more elegant or who needs some reminders on how its done. Louise Canova is sure to ring bells for you too. As for "Game of Thrones", I picked it up at the bookstore and I'm finding it a bit slow. Perhaps the TV series has spoiled the books for me.